To Be or Not to Be an Enabler, That is THE Question!

There are two types of enablers; one kind enables people, situations, projects, causes, to continue, thrive, prosper, grow and benefit, the other enables people to remain in a rut, suffer, just exist, move backward. Both kinds of enablers may in their own minds be justified in their hearts that what they are doing is the right thing to do at the time and is of help to those whom they are enabling! Knowing the true “right” takes a lot of soul searching and thought!

If you help a young family with children who’s father and/or mother have lost their jobs keep the bills paid and food on the table while they look for new jobs is a good kind of enabling!

If you help somebody that’s an alcoholic or drug addict buy their vices or buy them for them. Or smoke with someone trying to quit, or run around with someone who’s trying to settle down and raise a family. Well, those are bad ways of enabling!

So how far do we have to go as “good people” to save others? Who is responsible?

Bottom line…………………we are each of us totally responsible for ourselves! Nobody else!

Divine Order is always present, whether it looks like it or not! Declare it!

Everyone must learn their lessons in their own way………………so when you don’t know what to do for yourself or anybody else……………Let Go and Let GOD!

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About Life's Lessons- Last Times

A gentleman having traveled down many roads. I've made my life easier by reading books by other people who have had trips down different roads than I have. I want to help others by sharing my efforts to understand change in ways they might understand and benefit from. Life is good...............just not always easy! Author, 4 short plays Actor, 2 movies, Board Chair of Local Theater , Gardener, Barbershop Quartet member
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