WHAT IS IT LIKE TO BE DIFFERENT? WHATEVER THE REASON!

IT REALLY DOESN’T MATTER WHAT THE REASON IS THAT YOU ARE DIFFERENT, THE RESULTS ARE THE SAME!

During special times of the year” being different” especially raises its ugly head! Holiday gatherings of friends, family, community, nations take place all over the world. People of course come in all sizes, colors, temperament, etc. and most of them conform to the “normal” look of people around them and so get by with no problems. People with physical differences such a being either too big or too small (weight or height), birth marks, self-inflicted changes  (tattoos )and/or psychological differences (mental illnesses,  sexual preferences), religious beliefs, don’t get away so easily.

People who are insecure lock on to these people who are “different” and bring their differences to awareness in order to not draw attention to themselves. It is called hiding in place! Point the crowd in another direction.

So these people who are different become very aware of those who are just waiting to find them and point them out to the others in the crowd. Their abilities are so keen at spotting the “enemy” that they can actually feel it without having to see the actual person. Like a hunted animal they can sense trouble and steer clear of it!

When those who are different know that the enemy is every where they are likely to go, cleverly they cease going to those places well-known as “enemy spots” thus lowering their chances of being hurt. In many cases they just stop going out at all and stay in the comfort zone of their own little world.

AND that suits the enemy just fine because they don’t want to be contaminated by those who are different! But alas, when they no longer have those who are different to draw the attention away from them….they don’t like that either, so they continue to find those who are different and it becomes a compulsion with them even if they have to make up lies to keep their protection complete!

This holiday season be aware of what kind of person you are, Normal or One Who Is Different?  AND how you react and behave regardless of what kind you decide you are is a perfect reflection of the kind of person you REALLY ARE!

YOU ARE WHAT YOU THINK! SO BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU THINK!

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About Life's Lessons- Last Times

A gentleman having traveled down many roads. I've made my life easier by reading books by other people who have had trips down different roads than I have. I want to help others by sharing my efforts to understand change in ways they might understand and benefit from. Life is good...............just not always easy! Author, 4 short plays Actor, 2 movies, Board Chair of Local Theater , Gardener, Barbershop Quartet member
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